Fear Controls, Love Allows Fear Controls, Love Allows. Once again, I turn to that wonderful book Journey Into Now by Leonard Jacobson for a profound observation that opens the flow of Conscious Creation energy.Fear/Control = Obstruction, Restriction, Stagnation, Regression, Mistrust Love/Allowing = Movement, Flow, Freedom, Progress, Expansion, Surrender
Fear-based control is the ultimate backfire. You make ground, only to lose ground. Fear attracts more fear. It attracts anger. It attracts all of those things you do fear. But love…now that’s a different matter. Approaching all of the dealings in your personal and professional life from a standpoint of love is like plunking yourself down at the apex of the waterslide and going with the flow all the way down! Being in a state of allowing and appreciation enables the Universe to do the work for you. You open the spigot of love and problems/challenges seem to wash away much faster. There is so much less resistance and pushback from others. You have more time for a balanced life. You can really give yourself to family, friends and lovers. Relationships are a delight instead of an obligation. Your business and reputation grows through word-of-mouth, and you attract money and growth. You are always in some form of expansion in various aspects of your life. You find that you can Consciously Create easily and effortlessly and desires manifest far more quickly. So the key here is to ask yourself, “Where am I coming from right now? Is it fear? Do I want control? Or is it love and can I trust and allow?” What must you do to shift from fear to love, from control to allowing? Here are some things:
Find your new home in the state of Allowing, and you will always be on your way to peaceful happiness!Would you like to reprint Conscious Creation articles? We would be pleased to have you help spread this vital information as long as you include the following signature at the end: |
Jackie Lapin
Author of Practical Conscious Creation and The Art of Conscious Creation; How You Can Transform the World;
That masterful book, the first in her Practical Conscious Creation Series, makes “personal frequency management” a cornerstone of its message, teaching people how to raise their personal frequency, a critical first step in successful manifesting. The Art of Conscious Creation was a finalist USA Book Award, The Visionary Award and the National Indie Excellence Awards.
Since that book, Lapin has become a noted speaker, coach and transformational business consultant. Her mission is to turn millions of people into Conscious Creators, so that they consciously create their lives, rather than let life happen to them. A pioneering spirit who has succeeded at the highest levels of multiple careers, Lapin was one of the national’s first women sportswriters, and then became a nationally recognized media relations expert with a world-class client list for more than 30 years. The publicity she generated has sold millions of dollars worth of products and services and launched multi-million-dollar companies. Among her clients have been The World Poker Tour, Toyota, Upper Deck, The Golf Channel, the LA Marathon, Disney, Seagrams, Mazda, Avon, Showtime and PetSmart, among others.
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If you are like me, and you’ve spent the better part of your life compelled to take control of all aspects of your life to “insure” success—a true type A personality—than you have also known the consequences of compulsive control. You may feel that nothing would succeed without your tight-fisted control. But what has been the cost? You are overworked, perhaps underpaid for your efforts, tired and burned out, considered difficult by colleagues and coworkers, neglected your family, neglected yourself! Life has been difficult and challenging. Seldom do things happen easily. You may even have alienated those you love. You may well be unsatisfied with what you’ve achieved at this point in your life.
Jackie Lapin is the world leader in educating, mentoring and coaching people on Practical Conscious Creation. Her newest book,