I'm Here on the Planet for Me, Not You! “I’m here on this planet for me, not you!” What a wonderful freeing concept! This statement, recommended by the wonderful sage Leonard Jacobson in his book Journey Into Now, is the get-out-of-jail-free card for so many people who live their lives to please others or who have allowed themselves to be enslaved or manipulated by other people. And I’m here to tell you this statement is true. Your life is your own. You owe your time, your attention, your love and your effort to no one! You may choose to give these to others, but there is absolutely no obligation to live your life in accordance with what they want for or from you. These are some of the ways people get caught up in someone else’s web:
It is when you have little faith in yourself, when you don’t honor your own needs and integrity, and when you feel worthless that you allow others to call the shots. You become their shadow being. But please understand that this is a choice, even though it may be an unconscious one. For you to breathe and feel freedom, you need only break the bonds. You can declare your independence with this very phrase, “I’m here on this planet for me, not you!” And then proceed to take the actions that will change your life. This might mean:
If you have been living a half life—half yours and half someone else’s—it’s time to solely live your life. You will feel the exuberance of being your own master. Don’t regret what has gone before. Just make the alteration now and live boldly forward a life of your choosing. A life of glorious independence. With other people around you as supporters, not enslavers. |